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    What is your biggest flaw?

    created by HisChosen1 9 days 16 hours 21 minutes ago

    Category: World

    What is your biggest flaw?

    Hello Everyone!

    I had a personal question for anyone that decides to join my forum today!

    What is your single biggest character flaw that you see in yourself?

    My biggest flaw that I have I would say is my temper. I am not the most patient of individuals, and when I go off on someone, I go off. I'm by no means violent, but I would be lying if I said I have never berated someone verbally.

    What about you guys?

    -Kay

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    Hello HisChosen1,

    My biggest flaw is that I am shy. I barely talk to anyone, but the people I do talk to, I talk to a lot. I wish I could talk to more people, but I just get too nervous. I have learned to be more carefree in the past few years, but I've got a long way to go.

    Thank you,
    Leland

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    I am often too passive.

    Back when I was in high school I was a pretty aggressive kid. I was very competitive and always spoke my mind. I didn't really care about being rude or blunt because I was told that being yourself and speaking your mind was what we were supposed to be. Then all the songs tell me to forget the haters and I'm like...okay!

    Anyway, as I grew up I started to hate the competitive side of myself. It wasn't so much that I saw bad things happening as a result so much as I saw good people acting the opposite of me and they gained so much by being nice. I never thought I was being completely mean but I certainly didn't know how difficult I was to communicate with.

    I am now very open, very laid back, and at some times, I am too passive because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings or do anything out of line. I am cautious about my behavior because I have seen how it can affect others and myself.

    -Riley

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    My biggest flaw would have to be my overly concernedness about people's emotions. Sometimes I place them above mine just so people remain in their 'current state"

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    Hey Kay,

    My biggest flaw is that I can be a little harsh on myself sometimes. I like doing things correctly and get frustrated if I can't figure something out right away. Im trying to work on it because it is frustrating.

    Have a great day!

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    Hello HisChosen1,

    I have to say that my biggest character flaw is my introverted nature. I feel like it's so weird because my mother is very social and our family seems to be full of extroverted and upbeat individuals (mostly the women now that I think about it).

    I know a lot of people are introverted, but I feel like I am truly on another level. Not surprisingly, my family agrees that I am a cave monster; I consider a day with little to no conversation a good day; I like to listen to music and turn off all the lights at home, then trudge around eating and reading; I have horrible anxiety and panic attacks that keeps me from even family events (horrible, I know). That is the tip of the iceberg! I have a theory that I was found in the woods when I was a toddler that was being raised by animals and since then I have always struggled to assimilate.

    Have a great rest of your night :)

    Karely

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    Hey Kay!

    I think my biggest flaw is being way too patient with people. People always tell me I'm getting taken advantage of, but I never see it... because I guess I'm too patient haha? Sometimes it gets to the point where I'm just waiting and waiting and waiting, and I'm never really initiative about stuff, so that can lead to things like waiting until the last minute to say things. I guess my patience correlates with my shyness in a way, and I kind of want to get that changed.

    Thanks! - Kyle

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    Hey,

    My biggest flaw is that I can't walk.

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    Hi Kay,
    I guess my greatest flaw is that I always rush into things. I don't take my time to think things through. I am not a very patient person. If someone texts me, I feel like I have to reply immediately, I can't reply a few minutes later. However, sometimes that can get me into trouble.
    Another flaw I have is that I procrastinate a lot. I waste too much time, and I never get things done! I'm always trying to change this thing me but I just love wasting time, especially when I have important things to do, like studying for my finals. I do usually end up finishing what I have to do, but I usually finish things right before the due date, and I find myself running to get things done in time.

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    I think it's interesting that several people posted qualities related to being introverted. I too am an introvert and I often feel that it's one of my biggest flaws.

    What is it about being introverted that makes it sound like a bad word? I don't feel like there's anything negative per se about being quiet or reserved but our culture does seem to tell us it is. Why do you think that is?

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    @Joey - Damn, you make us all sound so trivial :)

    My biggest flaw is that I talk too much and don't listen enough. At least I'm aware of it. That's a step in the right direction right?

    I watched a fantastic Ted talk about listening. It's called "10 ways to have a better conversation". Give it a listen.

    https://www.ted.com/talks/celeste_headlee_10_ways_to_have_a_better_conversation

    Jenni

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    My biggest flaw is that I forgive too easily. It doesn't matter how bad you hurt my feelings at the end of the day I would still forgive you because I don't like people being upset with me and I don't like being upset with others. It's something I wish I could overcome because I'm the one who always apologizes first even if the situation wasn't even my fault.

    Have a great day!

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    my biggest flaw is my procrastination i should doing a cover letter or resume right now but instead im watching Korean drams and old shows i missed i need to take school more seriously or im just gonna fail at life.

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    Hello Everyone!

    Thank you all for taking the time to respond to my forum! I have many flaws, but, in my opinion, my temper is my biggest.

    Thanks again!

    -Kay

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    Hi everyone,

    My biggest flaw is that I get mad fast and I always have a hard time forgiving people. I am trying to hard to work on my behavior and forgive people easily. Human must learn to forgive each other like children forgive and love. Have a good day.

    Re: What is your biggest flaw?

    My biggest flaw would be my language. I feel as if I curse too much around certain people especially my friends and classmates at school.