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What's hardest part about being in a relationship?
 
submitted by dhs_2010 15 days 17 hours 51 minutes ago
Category: Entertainment
 
Message # 172250
What's hardest part about being in a relationship?
I think the hardest part is the trust factor. Everyone wants to believe that the person theyre with is trustworthy, but we all know from experience that its not always true, expecially being in highschool
Message # 172289
Re: What's hardest part about being in a relationship?
i think the hardest thing would be communication and trust, especially in long distance relationships, communication because everyone may hear a rumor which would make you doubt the person you are with, this is were the trust factor comes in if you have communication and are honest with each other , then there is no doubting the complete trust you should have in the person your with
Message # 172299
Re: What's hardest part about being in a relationship?
I had a boyfriend and the hardest part was understanding him and getting along. We broke up after a while. After we broke up I really fell in love with him, and it was very hard on me. It took me a year to get over him. The main hardship in relationship is getting along and understanding each other, and the other stuff just comes along.

Julia Tokareva
Message # 172332
Re: What's hardest part about being in a relationship?
I think one of the hardest parts of a relationship is trust. You have to have faith in the other person's honesty. I personally think that trust is the foundation of any relationship because without it, there really isn't a relationship. If it is based off of lies, it is pointless. Every great relationship has trust and communication in it.
Message # 172368
Re: What's hardest part about being in a relationship?
Hmmm... I can't really say that I've had too many trust issues in any of my relationships.

I tend to be the sort who opens up sort of slowly, so if I don't trust you, you're never going to get to know me. As far as being in a relationship with someone I don't trust, I just don't see it happening. Without trust, I just never build that sort of connection.

If there has been anything that I've had issues with in my relationships though, it's mostly been managing my own expectations. I'm sort of a take no shit, tough love type, and I tend to be blunt, because I assume that if I can take it, so can everyone else. And I find that the people I click best with have a pretty thick skin and a similiar out look on life.

But, I think you have to leave room for the other person to be themselves. You can't expect them to think the same way that you do, or feel the same that you do. People are different. And I suppose that's an important part of communication: not projecting yourself onto other people so much. Waiting to hear what they're thinking, instead of assuming that you've got them figured out.

In the end, it's hard just to know yourself, let alone know anyone else, and the only way that you can know anyone is to give them enough space to express who they are. And that means not judging anything too harshly.
Message # 172408
Re: What's hardest part about being in a relationship?
Coming from someone who is married, the trust issues fade away once you make that commitment to each other.

I think that the hardest part about keeping our marriage/relationship together is finding the time to work on it. My husband and I are both in school full time, he works full time, and I am a stay-at-home mom FULL TIME!! With all of this going on, we tend to forget about each other sometimes. We get too comfortable with the relationship and tend to think that it doesn't need to change. I have actually been thinking about this lately because we are feeling distant with all of the crazy things going on in our lives.

The hardest part is trying to find time to put the relationship above everything else. We are married and we should be able to find time for each other, but it just seems hard sometimes. I know that making time for someone else might seem trivial to some, but it really is difficult. We live together and barely see each other right now and it does put a strain on our relationship. We have to learn to let things go and put each other first so we don't fall apart.
Message # 172434
Re: What's hardest part about being in a relationship?
I think the hardest part of a relationship is comprimise. I was always the type that did everything for me and whatever made me happy. Now I have to think about my husband and what makes him happy also. There has to be room for comprimise on both sides in order to keep things running smoothly.
Message # 172456
Re: What's hardest part about being in a relationship?
I think that the hardest part is trust. Because what type of relationship can u have if your always wondering weather or not your bf or gf is being faithful to you. Also you have to be able to talk to them about anything that is bothering you that way you have no hidden feelings towards them.
Message # 172460
Re: What's hardest part about being in a relationship?
I also believe trust is the hardest thing. It's not easy to gain someones trust and once you have it and break it then it may be hard to regain. If you dont trust your partner then there is a strong chance that the realtionship will not last.
Message # 172515
Re: What's hardest part about being in a relationship?
Trust is a very hard thing to gain in a relationship. Once it's lost, it will never be gained again.