During highschool thats where most people begin dating and getting into relationships.Some realationships last throughout highschool and some dont.

Some people even fall in love and think they will stay togehter even after grauation.But some worry that it wont last.

Me personally is in a serious relationship and love my boyfriend very dearly. I really do want us to last and i know he does too. But im 99% sure we wont be attending the same college which will be a huge challenge for us. Im deading the end of the year because it will be getting closer to us having to be apart.

How do you guys feel about relationships lasting after highschool?..Is it worth it too hang on to it..or should it just be let go in order to experience more?

HOLD ON!!! try don't give up right away...if your relationsip is solid and you can trust each other you'll make it farther than you think! :)

I think that if you love him enough, the relationship will last. If you are honestly in love, the distance will not matter. You will be able to work everything out if your heart is totally in it. It just depends on you and your boyfriend and if you feel like a long distance relationship would work.

How far away from him are you planning on going to college? That could be a factor. If you are only going an hour or so away, the relationship could still last. If you are going thousands of miles away, it might be more difficult only because you will miss each other. It totally depends on how stable your relationship is and if you are truly in love.

If I was you, don't think about it quite yet. You still have a lot of time to figure it out before school starts next year. Just see what happens. :) If the love is there, the distance won't matter.

It depends...if you're going to the same college then possibly...if not then you might as well give it up....but even you go to the same college it such a different atmosphere and youre around a new group of people so youre going to be attempted to "try" new things....so it depends on how strong you are :)

How do you guys feel about relationships lasting after highschool?..Is it worth it too hang on to it..or should it just be let go in order to experience more?

Honestly, my boyfriend and I are high school sweethearts. <3 I've been with my boyfriend for five years and 6 months since I was in junior high and currently attending the same college. Yes, you can imagine how much argument and pain that is. haha and it's all worth it.

Distance shouldn't be an excuse or reason for any kind of break up. I understand that trust and faithfulness will be an issue but that shouldn't stop. There are always assumptions you'll accuse at times and I don't blame you if that happens but you two are far apart to believe what's true or not. But, as long as you two share a bond and love each other faithfully then everything will be all right.

I had a boyfriend when I graduated highschool We lasted almost until the end of my freshman year in college. We were an hour apart and saw each other on most weekends. But after a while I just felt it was time to move on. The breakup was tough because he still wanted to be together but my heart wasn't into it anymore. I think college changes a person a lot. Not in a bad way either. Its all part of growing up, maturing and learning more about the world. Its normal. My advice to you, dont end it just because your going to college. If you both still want to be together then do just that. But dont force it. At the very least, be open to the idea that you two may not be together in another year. And when that time comes, you may be totally fine with it. Just take it one day at a time, and try not to stress over it. Heck, you guys might last forever. I love hearing about the married couple who were highschool sweethearts.

My parents started dating when she was a freshman and he was a senior. All their friends made bets on how long it would be before they broke up. Last year was their 20th aniversary. They went to different colleges and my dad was in the army for a couple of years. If you guys have a strong relationship you can do it.

There are some couples that last even after high school but there are more that dont. For example I was with my boyfriend in high school and during the summer we seemed to grow apart, he graduated one year before me and he started school this year. We stopped talkin to each other for a long time and we recently got back together.. so things do happen. I think that you should give it a shot. That way you cant have feelings of regret. If you do mangae to make it work even through the distance then that means it ws really mean to be. ... good luck..

Hey, I think trust and communication are very important factors in a relationship. Granted we all have our issues in the relationship;however, if you know he and you can keep those two together and keep the fire going, no matter how far you're part, more power to you!

They usually don't and friendships don't either...I know from experience and my friend's experiences.. its just how is goes.

I havent been on in awhile but anyone who remembers me from the past might remember that I was dating for someone for 2 1/2 years and he went to school in North Dakota and I stayed in South Carolina. We were ok for about 2 months and then broke up. We are talking about getting back together but its pretty hard. Even the strongest realtionships with the biggest bond can be broken by distance. I hope it works out for you and for me too.

My fiance and I are highschool sweethearts.

That should tell you something.

We dated for 3 years, starting our junior year, and then he proposed.

♥

Seriously, though, I understand that most people don't believe you can meet your true love in high school. Honestly,  I would suggest maybe a temporary separation during college, maybe for a semester, just to see if you really are sure. What if there's someone better? (You really just never know.) Plus, having some freedom in college prevents jealousy and distrust.

But, do what your heart tells you. (I know that sounds so cliche...) It can work out...just work on the most important elements of a relationship:
*Faith
*Love
*Communication
*Compromise

Yes, relationships do last after highschool. I have been with my high school sweetheart going on 19 years, we have been married for a total of 13 years!! We have been blessed with four beautiful and healthy children. Congrats!!

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I would say that depending on the peope in whom relationship it is, depicts the future of it.
For an example if the relaionship is basedon physical activity, then I highly doubt the relationship in the long run; but,if there is an emotional bond that both partners have then there is a great chance that he/she spouse in the future will be there highschool sweetheart <3

I think it can last if you both work hard at it. It's hard to say because every relationship is different. Sometimes people grow apart and get new interest. I have a girlfriend that I just started dating two months ago. We attend the same high school. I like her alot and we are very compatible. We can converse on a wide-range of subjects. She wants to attend a college two hours away from where we live. I'm not sure where I'm going to attend college yet. I hope that our relationship can continue and grow throughout college. Best wishes to you with your relationship.

I say you got to belive in love and the human capcity for finding a way. I obviously don't know you, but if you love the guy it'll happen. People have gone through way more than college seperation and staigd together, but it isn't the end of the world if you guys do grow apart. Probably not what you want to hear, but people definately change and grow at our age sometimes we grow closer together or further apart, but growth is good so don't worry about it what whatever happens College is going to be good for all of us. Or else what a waste of time and money hahaha
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I was in a 2yr relationship that just ended about a month or so ago. He was 1 grade ahead of me so now he is in college and I am a senior in high school. We stuck it out for about a month after he left but then things started changing and he had less and less time to talk to me. I tried to best I could but he eventually said he didnt think it would work anymore. Maybe it just depends on the person and how dedicated you are to each other and if you are willing to sacrafice and make some changes.

not all the time. like mines i had to break up with mines because he is going to the army and im going out of state for college so we wont be able to have a distance relationship so it cant work but i surely do want him to be with me so we decided to just be friends and be supportive for eacht oher.. I still love him to this day and my mind would never changed

It really depends on the relationship and the people in it. It can last, but you will have to work hard at making it last.

My first husband and I started dating in high school. I was 13 and he was 14. We ended up getting married right after I graduated. Unfortunately, being in high school and being an adult are two very different things and he was not ready to be an adult. We ended up getting a divorce after 18 months.

I was in a relationship a while ago and I was so in love. Actually I am still in love with him, but not the person he has become. We wanted to go on after high school and still be together. It would have worked too, because we were going to to school in the same town. But things happened and now we are not together. He has changed every thing about him, to where I do not know the person he is today.

I think it is worth it to hold on to someone you love. Love is something so indescribable, so incredible that it just overwhelms you completely. If both persons do there best to make it work, it can.